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Frequently Asked Questions

Here you can find a lot of information about our event. Reading this entire FAQ page is mandatory before applying. We are always as transparent as possible about what you are getting yourself into, and a large way of making that possible is your reading of this page! 

Q: What are the dates of the event?

A: Aug 2nd, Friday 6pm to Sunday 1pm

Q: What time does it start and end?

A: It begins at 6pm Friday and it ends at 1pm Sunday. 

Q: Can I stay longer than the advertised dates or arrive early?

A: Sissy Weekend has options to arrive early and be of service, or stay longer, glowing in your headspace from the event. Michelle, Isobel, Natasha and Mercer are all staying through Tuesday, and 3/4 if not 4/4 Mistresses will all be there Thurs before the event. 

Q: How much is the event?

A: The early-bird event entry fee is $2,400

Q: Do you take deposits?

A: We take the whole payment only

Q: When does the entry become higher?

A: July 2nd, the event fee will be $3,400. We encourage you to book early to save.


Q: What happens if I do not pay but I was accepted?


A: We accept sissies in the order of who paid



Q: Can I stay longer than Sunday at 1 when the event ends? Can I arrive early to serve?

A: We do accept additional days of service after the event is over, for those who want to live in the world longer, and be in their glowing, subservient head-space. There is NO EVENT scheduled or expectations at all of play, but Mistresses still enjoy service during this time. Many will be filming content which you can choose to assist with by participating on camera in a kinky situation or holding camera on the other side as a helper. If a Mistress decides she wants to torment you in a kinky way, you are in luck, but during this additional time, we expect you to frolic in your sissy mode, high on life, loving your head space, and being of service to us. If you have your hopes up for hours of specific kinky play, you can contact one of the Mistresses and arrange for a session on one of the extra days you are serving. This is appropriate. Some even go a bit wild and book a whole wild day-long or overnight thing with a Mistress or 2 during this time. Otherwise you may receive a little kink if we are in the mood, but shouldn't have the expectation of us arranging large scenes etc. Mistresses will be doing what they please.  

The additional costs: Thurs arrivals at 6pm the earliest and the fee is $1,200.  Sunday 1pm to Monday 1pm is $1,200 and Monday 1pm to Tues 1pm is $900

Q: I'm lost. Break down all the costs?

A: Sissy Weekend, Friday at 6pm to Sunday at 1pm 

$2,400 early bird, if not paid, then $3,400 after July 3rd. 


Arrive a day early on Thurs by 6 and serve us


Stay 1pm Sun to 1pm Mon


Stay 1pm Mon to 1pm Tues 


Choose to bring a significant other or Mistress $600

Q: Can I partake in an event like this as the only sissy without any other sissies present? I'm really private and shy. 

A: We can arrange a private overnight or weekend experience just for you, but keep in mind that it would be a lot more costly than the sissy weekend event and the cost would rise and rise with every Mistress you added to the attendance. We have the option for a private experience for just you with Mistress Michelle and any other available Mistresses from Tues Aug 6th through Aug 11th. 

Q: What is the difference between this event and the Order of Indomitus?

A: At the Order of Indomitus, men are our service-oriented slaves for the weekend, kept in cages, hosed off with a garden hose and put through some fun games like pony cart races and scavenger hunts for our amusement. They earn a slave number and a slave tag at the end of the weekend for going through such a tough set of trials while also learning a lot about servitude. While we do have a sissy or 2 at each event for those sissies who enjoy the thrill of an event like that, we also have many other types of male slaves also, similarly to the different types of sissies at the Sissy Weekend. You will see the bondage lover. The masochist. The slut. The degraded human ashtray. Many sissies also share the same kinky interests as other service oriented slaves who attend Indomitus. Sissies are sometimes no different, just prettier! We can get just as wild at the sissy event in terms of bondage and discipline and oodles of slut-training if a sissy has those interests, however many of our games and activities are based around sissy themes. The events are two versions of a similar world. 

Q: Will we be kept in chastity all weekend?

A: Perhaps!

Q: How will we be sleeping?

A: Comfortable beds are provided, unless a Mistress desires a sissy to sleep in another arrangement that is a bit kinkier! 

Q: How many sissies and Mistresses will be attending?

A: We like to have a 2 sissies per Mistress ratio max. This doesn't include a Guest Mistress or 2 thrown into that mix. Could be 8 sissies 4 or 6 Mistresses. We won't know. 

Q: Am I assigned to a Mistress?

A: No, we do things as a group and you will spend time with many Mistresses. You'll never be left out, standing there, lost. We have an organized situation and it works out really well. 

Q: What is the closest airport?

A: VPS, it's @ 25 min drive. Panama City FL airport is 50 min and Pensacola is 1hr 20 min. 

Q: Should I rent a car?

A: You can't walk to anything from that house. Depends on your plans. 

Q: What if I paid and I cannot attend?

A: Unfortunately, there are no refunds due to the limited space and tight planning of attending women. If an emergency can be proven (hospital records, flight info and many cancelled flights due to bad weather, copy of death certificate of a loved one) we may feel that we can place you in a future event. We try to be fair in a dire circumstance. We WILL try to fill your spot depending on the event size and see if it can be done that way. Otherwise for all other reasons, there are no refunds. 

Q: What if I have my own things that I want to bring?

A: You can bring anything you wish! From outfits to toys!

Q: What if I do not have any sissy attire OR I cannot bring it with me?

A: We will have some attire at the event and toys for all but not much for rubber dolls. Latex is fragile and expensive and we have minimal in only a few sizes. We DO have a plethora of rubber bondage gear!

Q: Can I leave all of my things with you for a future event/private session? 

A: Absolutely. We can hold your entire wardrobe in a box that we seal, which will have your sissy name on it for next time. 

Q: Can I donate all items I purchased to the sissy event? After the event I won't be able to take it with me and don't have use for the items. 

A: Of course and we very much appreciate your donations! 

Q: Are there kinky items at the event such as chastity devices?

A: We have a LOT of kinky toys at the event! There is no promise of a chastity device or plug to be your perfect size so if you would like to bring your own that is always helpful. 

Q: I'm new and terrified. I'm experienced and terrified. HELP! Will I make it?

A: I sympathize! I have done many lengthy events of all different kinds and many people feel terrified, even very experienced people! Last Sissy Weekend we had 3 sissies who had NEVER been in a group setting before!

 I will say that we make all of you feel so comfortable that everyone stays the entire time at these events, even the terrified ones. The way it works is that everyone at these events is presented with specific easy guidelines and rules that all of the sissies have to follow. Since this is new to everyone attending, everyone is on the same boat and learning together! At the same time, the schedule of events keeps things flowing at a fun pace and keeps everyone busy. You don't even have time to be scared anymore. You are now having too much fun! Sure you'll be afraid, but just watch, listen, and go with the flow. The Mistresses will guide all of you through it. You'll settle down quite fast. We are very kind people. 

Q: Can my wife/girlfriend/Mistress attend?


A: Yes. As long as we have a chat with her first to make sure she understands the event and that she isn't to do any activities with other subs that may be harmful to them (for example attempting to tie up and whip a bad sissy without BDSM experience etc).  

Q: What rules do I need to know beforehand?

A: No touching anyone, anywhere on their person without their explicit consent. No means no! If they do allow it but change their mind, immediately honor and respect their wishes. No drinking and or drugs (except medically prescribed). No publicly stating the address or taking compromising photos of the location. No photographing anyone unless with consent from all parties in the photo and away from the event group. Anyone caught taking photos of group, touching anyone without their permission or otherwise behaving awfully will delete photos immediately and be banned from future events and blacklisted in the fetish community. 

Q: Do Mistresses provide private sessions before or after the event?

A: You would have to arrange that with the particular Mistress you wished to see, directly with her, on Thurs before the event, and Sun/Mon/Tue.

Q: Are my limits respected?

A: ALWAYS! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS! You are dealing with the women who run one of the wildest kinky events in the USA Order Of Indomitus. If we keep all of those men safe and they are happily returning to many future events because of it, rest assured our sissy weekends have the same safety, professionalism and care. From health concerns to issues with marks, to just plain kinky things that are off the table, we respect it all. 

Q. How will you know my interests, limits, and health issues?

A: You have to state all of that in your application to us. This is how we keep track of these things and create a wonderful experience for you. 

Q: What if I cannot be in any photos or videos at all?

A: You will have nothing to worry about as this is never mandatory. We always announce if we are going to take a quick pic or 2 and give the 1 or 2 people that cannot be in any pics their chance to walk away for a second, OR if they can take the pic for us! We have never even on accident, taken a photo of anyone at an event that was not supposed to have their pic taken. Its a very controlled and professional environment.

Q: How do you take payment?

A: You can send cashapp to $MsMichelleLacy. Do not write anything in the notes. Just message to say "I just sent from x name!" 

If you are someone I know and trust of many years, you can send Zelle. 

If you are nearby to me, you can drop off cash.

Q: Can I bring something? Tip?

A: You may give a house tip that is split between the women as a thank you, or you can tip the women who spent a lot of time with you and made some kind of impact, etc. It's not mandatory to tip but many ask about it. 

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