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Frequently Asked Questions

Here you can find a lot of information about our event. Reading this entire FAQ page is mandatory before applying. We are always as transparent as possible about what you are getting yourself into, and a large way of making that possible is your reading of this page! 

Q: What are the dates of the event?

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A: Sept 19th to 21st are the official event dates. Optional additional extended event nights are the 21st, and 22nd

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Q: What time does it start and end?

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A: The begins at 6pm Friday and it ends between noon and 1pm Sunday. If it ends at 1, it's because we are saying goodbye for a long time.   

Additional nights end at noon the following day. 

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Q: Can I stay longer than the advertised dates or arrive early?

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A: Sissy Weekend has options to arrive early and be of service, or stay longer, glowing in your headspace from the event and having additional fun. We will schedule a few fun situations on the additional event days.

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Q: What is the Thurs arrival/event service help entail?

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A: You can arrive anytime Thurs after 12noon.

After a tour of the estate, we will be giving you tasks to perform between your Thurs arrival and Friday afternoon. Tasks will include things such as laundry, bed-making, putting groceries away, helping with food prep if you are comfy and knowledgable in the kitchen, setting up clothing racks, hanging clothes, displaying wigs, shoes, etc. We will want you to get a good night's sleep and won't be up late, so you can really enjoy the event and after a few hours of help Friday, we encourage you to rest and if you want, prepare early. You can also run an errand or pick a Mistress up from the local airport using my car if you are comfortable. Mistresses will start arriving Thursday and Friday afternoon. 

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The Thurs to Friday event service is $700

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Q: What goes on, during the additional optional days? Why do people choose to add any?

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A: The official event is packed with a lot of activities and situations, to ensure that attendees have a thrilling, fun, insightful and overall incredible experience, with a lot packed in. Activities flow together in a way which takes you on a journey through service. 

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Additional days are different in that there's no strict schedule filled with nonstop action, and instead there is more downtime to "glow" in the wonderful "high" of the event that just happened. During this afterglow, you will get the opportunity to continue to serve the Mistresses of the house (or whoever you brought with you if you brought someone). You have more downtime to get to know the Mistresses of the house, as they relax a bit more from the wild weekend. That doesn't mean there are not wild and fun activities that end up happening. There are a few scheduled fun situations, the opportunity to be in photos or film hot videos with a Mistress of the house or two if you wish (or watch that happen which can be thrilling). If you really want a very specific play situation with a Mistress of the house, you might be able to book her for this during that time in a designated space you both decide on in the home that is for just the two of you. We have had a lot of wild and amazing scenes happen during the days following the event, it's just not as rigid and gives people a chance to catch their breath. Do know that each day after the event, a Mistress might leave as they can't all stay for the entire timeframe. 

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Q: How much is the event?

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NOTE: Entry rates go up July 1st

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THURS EARLY EVENT HELPER: $700

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SOLO: Attending solo in direct service to the house host Mistresses who take you on this journey $3,400 for the weekend event Early Bird sign-up. The first optional additional night Sunday 1pm to Monday 1pm is $1,400. The second optional additional night Monday 1pm to Tuesday 1pm is $1,200. 

 

PARTNERED: Attending with a play partner/Mistress/significant other who you will be generally serving while the host Mistresses takes you all on this journey $2,800. The first optional additional night Sunday 1pm to Monday 1pm is $1,200. The second optional additional night Monday 1pm to Tuesday 1pm is $1,000. 

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Q: I am not sure if I am service-oriented. Is this right for me?

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A: Sometimes people attend our immersive events who aren't service-oriented but nice people and love being helpful and that alone helps them get by. Being service-oriented means you LOVE doing tasks for the people who control you for that time-frame, tasks that please them from rubbing their feet, getting them coffee, etc. Not being remotely service-oriented, and not enjoying being helpful enough to do tasks for us, you will struggle here. Our events are about service to our household as our owned sissies for the weekend. 

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Q: What are the details regarding bringing another person to the event? How does that work?

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A: Read about that here.

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Q: Do you take deposits?

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A: We require full payment but have allowed installments to happen.

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Q: When does the entry become higher?
 

A: July 1st, the event fee will be $4,000 for a solo attendee and $3,500 if you come partnered. We encourage you to book early to save. We raise the event rate higher because we want to push people to book early so we can plan the event BEST. Last min sign ups mean that we might have to fly in another Mistress or 2 last minute, with a last minute expensive flight, etc. 

 

Q: What happens if I do not pay but I was accepted?

 

A: We accept sissies in the order of who paid. Your acceptance is just an acceptance and doesn't hold a place for you. â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹

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Q: Can I partake in an event like this as the only sissy without any other sissies present? I'm really private and shy. 

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A: We can arrange a private overnight or weekend experience just for you at another time. Contact Mistress Michelle. Do know that the rate would be fairly high compared to the event rate. 

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Q. I identify as female in one of these situations:

-I'm a trans woman.

-I might be trans and am figuring it out but feel strongly about identifying as female sub here.

-I crossdress and generally feel that I have a serious female identity that makes up who I am, I am dual spirited. When there, I am my female self.

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I do not find that dressing up in feminine attire is humiliating or punishing because I feel that I am a woman. Is this event for me?

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A. We gear the event based on who attends and the overall vibe of the interests and identities of our attendees. We never treat our subs the same at all. Just because one person is more of a classic sissy does not mean we will be seeing or treating the other attendee who is a trans woman as anything other than a submissive woman, we want you to be treated here how you need to be. When we have fun and play, we do not mix people or scenes who don't make sense/vibe together. When we have had sissies who were more of a cis gendered male archetype, they have been extremely understanding and respectful of our female (trans) subs and crossdressed, female-presenting subs and have been sweet and complimentary, knowing that while they are both submissive and enjoy the control and service, and are both feminine, they don't have the same gender baseline and reasons for kinks in some aspects. They have admired them. 

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Q: What is the difference between this event and the Order of Indomitus?

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A: At the Order of Indomitus, mostly the male gender, make up our service-oriented slaves for the weekend, kept in cages, hosed off with a garden hose and put through some fun games like pony cart races and scavenger hunts for our amusement. They earn a slave number and a slave tag at the end of the weekend for going through such a tough set of trials while also learning a lot about servitude. While we do have a sissy or 2 at each event for those sissies who enjoy the thrill of an event like that, we also have many other types of slave archetypes also, similarly to the different types of sissies at our feminization/sissy event. You will see the bondage lover. The masochist. The slut. The degraded human ashtray. The pony. And the sissy. Many sissies also share the same kinky interests as other service oriented slaves who attend Indomitus. Sissies are sometimes no different, just prettier! We can get just as wild at the sissy event in terms of bondage and discipline and oodles of slut-training if a sissy has those interests, however many of our games and activities are based around sissy themes. We have had trans women at OOI as well who were into such hardcore activities/hardcore service that take place there, and felt it fit them better than our feminiation event. 

The common ground to attend is that you are a service oriented submissive. Your kinks and archetypes otherwise do not matter, the variety makes OOI fun and interesting. 

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Q: Will we be kept in chastity all weekend?

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A: Depends! 

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Q: How will we be sleeping?

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A: Comfortable beds are provided, unless a Mistress desires a submissive to sleep in another arrangement that is a bit kinkier! 

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Q: How many submissives and Mistresses will be attending?

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A: We like to have a 2 sissies per Host Mistress ratio max. This doesn't include a Guest Mistress or 2 thrown into that mix. Could be 8 sissies 4 or 6 Mistresses. We won't know. We also don't know who might bring who.

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Q: Am I assigned to a Mistress?

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A: We might assign you to a specific house Mistress for a time, but generally do things as a group and you will spend time with many Mistresses. You'll never be left out, standing there, lost. We have an organized situation and it works out really well. 

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Q: What is the closest airport?

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A: VPS, it's @ 25 min drive. Panama City FL airport is 50 min and Pensacola is 1hr 20 min. 

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Q: Should I rent a car?

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A: You can't walk to anything from that house whatsoever. Depends on your plans. 

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Q: What if I paid and I cannot attend?

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A: Unfortunately, there are no refunds due to the limited space and tight planning of attending women.

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Q: What if I have my own things that I want to bring?

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A: You can bring anything you wish! From outfits to toys!

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Q: What if I do not have any femme attire OR I cannot bring it with me?

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A: We will have some attire at the event and toys for all but not much for rubber dolls. Latex is fragile and expensive and we have minimal in only a few sizes. We DO have a plethora of rubber bondage gear!

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Q: Can I leave all of my things with you for a future event/private session? 

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A: Absolutely. We can hold your entire wardrobe in a box/bag that we seal, which will have your sissy name on it for next time. 

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Q: Can I donate all items I purchased to the event? After the event I won't be able to take it with me and don't have use for the items. 

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A: Of course and we very much appreciate your donations! 

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Q: Are there kinky items at the event such as chastity devices?

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A: We have a LOT of kinky toys at the event! There is no promise of a chastity device or plug to be your perfect size so if you would like to bring your own that is always helpful, although we do have so many.

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Q: I'm new and terrified. I'm experienced and terrified. HELP! Will I make it?

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A: We sympathize! I have done many lengthy events of all different kinds and many people feel terrified, even very experienced people! Our last Weekend we had 3 people who had NEVER been in a group setting before!

 I will say that we make all of you feel so comfortable that everyone stays the entire time at these events, even the terrified ones. The way it works is that everyone at these events is presented with specific easy guidelines and rules that all of the submissives have to follow. Since this is new to everyone attending, everyone is on the same boat and learning together! At the same time, the schedule of events keeps things flowing at a fun pace and keeps everyone busy. You don't even have time to be scared anymore. You are now having too much fun! Sure you'll be afraid, but just watch, listen, and go with the flow. The Mistresses will guide all of you through it. You'll settle down quite fast. We are very kind people. 

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Q: What rules do I need to know beforehand?

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A: No touching anyone, anywhere on their person without their explicit consent. No means no! If they do allow it but change their mind, immediately honor and respect their wishes. No drinking and or drugs (except medically prescribed). No publicly stating the address or taking compromising photos of the location. No photographing anyone unless with consent from all parties in the photo and away from the event group. Anyone caught taking photos of group, touching anyone without their permission or otherwise behaving awfully will delete photos immediately and be banned from future events and blacklisted in the fetish community. We have thankfully, never had an incident of this in the history of us running events, but we say it anyway. 

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Q: Do Mistresses provide private sessions before or after the event?

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A: You would have to arrange that with the particular Mistress you wished to see, directly with her, on Thurs before the event, and Sun/Mon/Tue. Make sure she isn't leaving on one of the days just mentioned, ask for her specific availability. 

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Q: Are my limits respected?

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A: ALWAYS! You are dealing with the women who run one of the wildest kinky events in the USA Order Of Indomitus. If we keep all of those men safe and they are happily returning to many future events because of it, rest assured our feminization weekends have the same safety, professionalism and care. From health concerns to issues with marks, to just plain kinky things that are off the table, we respect it all. 

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Q. How will you know my interests, limits, and health issues?

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A: You have to state all of that in your application to us. This is how we keep track of these things and create a wonderful experience for you. 

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Q: What if I cannot be in any photos or videos at all?

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A: You will have nothing to worry about as this is never mandatory. We always announce if we are going to take a quick pic or 2 and give the 1 or 2 people that cannot be in any pics their chance to walk away for a second, OR if they can take the pic for us! We have never even on accident, taken a photo of anyone at an event that was not supposed to have their pic taken. Its a very controlled and professional environment.

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Q: Can I bring something? Tip?

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A: You may give a house tip that is split between the women as a thank you, or you can tip the women who spent a lot of time with you and made some kind of impact, etc. It's not mandatory to tip but many ask about it. 

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Q: How do meals work?

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A: We ask for everyone's dietary restrictions and come up with menus that are simple and also have variety. We make sure snacks of different kinds are available for everyone. You can also absolutely bring anything with you that you want. 

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Q: Is this erotic? Educational? 

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A: Its both, it depends on why you are there, and what you'd like to get out of it. It is usually very deep and meaningful for the majority of the attendees. 

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Q: I'm looking for a nonstop sexually charged environment filled with lots of slut training that is constantly happening all the time. Is that this?

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A: This event does get incredibly wild depending on the attendees interests/limits, but it's not a non-stop constant strap-on party. It's geared towards letting go and becoming in-service to the needs and desires of the Mistresses. 

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